Posted by: anon7890
A 10yr order--what act would give that by a judge.
Posted by: molaw08
I had a similar situation I had an affair with a married women I met while working. Her husband found out and went cookoo so she broke it off. I sent a letter to him explaining what happened and then to her apologizing. She filed for a restraining order probably forced into it by her pathetic husband. She came up with a slew of lies saying I posted ads on the net looking for her, I have always known where she lives we had an affair for pete sakes. Now I am left with the question, should I waste my time with her desperate acts or fight it. I was told by the sheriffs department in her own town that an ex parte is smoke and mirrors and if I am not wanting to contact her anymore I shouldn't waste my time. I am filing one against her as well due to her sending my fiancee a letter. I personally find it a little immature, she took the risk off having the affair now face getting caught. If you couldn't handle people knowing then you should have never done it.
Posted by: anon4801
I need to know the requirements to keep someone away from my 6 month old daughter. this lady already has charges against her for physical violence and drunkenness. and i personally believe she is mentally unstable.... what do i need to do to get a TRO against her?
Posted by: anon4689
Can lawyers and judges be trusted to do the right thing when I'm innocent of the charges in the restraining order? I hear judges make too many mistakes on these cases and push people to lose their minds? I believe in my innocence, I don't believe in lawyers and the system.
Posted by: anon3531
I was wonder I believe i was mislead about the restraining order I took out my my children's father. we had a physical argument which i started and the police told me I must go down to the court and file. this is not what i wanted. i just wanted us to take a break for a few days or weeks. how can i cancel the order?
Posted by: tates55
Ok so I have an ex that just threatened to kill me via text message....can i go to the police with that? I saved the message, here is what it said "if that girl your dating does anything to my couch i will kill you." I really don't think that she will do anything, but she has been bothering me ever since we split up. Was thinking this was the way to go to protect myself/her. Keep me from doing anything stupid, and keep her away from me. Thoughts?
Posted by: anon2720
2 TRO questions:
1) Can I get a restraining order against someone in another state who is harrassing me and my family?
2) If my wife requested in writing that a certain person not contact any of us, and if he did, should my wife file for a TRO because she was the one who asked him not to contact us to harass us? Is it better for me to send him a letter as well asking not to contact us?
Posted by: anon2610
what do i need to prove to the court that the restraining orders against me are all being done maliciously?
Posted by: anon2606
jharding,
I think you're right in assuming that seeking out someone whom you have a restraining order against will weaken your case. If this person is such a threat to you that you need a restraining order, then I don't think you should go see them. On the other hand, if you have things you want to communicate to them, maybe you shouldn't have a restraining order.
figueroar01,
Restraining orders are not actually all that easy to get, so if all you've done is call twice and email once they would have to be very violent or threatening interactions to justify a restraining order. Don't worry, she can't get one just because she wants one--she has to prove that you are a danger to her. If that's not the case, then she's just wasting her time.
Good luck to you both
Posted by: figueroar01
Not sure if you can answer this question so here goes. I find out that my husband and another woman over my house last year. She is pregnant and due, of coarse nine months later. I contacted her husband and spoke with him regarding my concerns and we had both suspected something was 'off' with their friendship. Now this woman in threating me with a restraining order if I contact her or her husband. I am very upset that she would try to 'shut me up' with this threat. I have only contact her husband twice via phone and one via email. She called me and instead of having a dialogue it became a monologue. Then she tells my husband that I was the one being rude and disrespectful. Well that's besides the point. What I would like to know is on that ground in the state of Virginia, does he have to pursue a restraining order? I have never threatened her with any form of harm, I am not going out of my way to call them, or anything like that. I believe she is upset that I would question paternity of her child and therefore she feels she need to 'shut me up'. This does seem like 'high school' issues however, I would like to ensure I have protected myself against any attempt to fraudulently obtain a restraining order against me.
Posted by: jharding
If i have a Tro on someone and a court date is in a few days. And i would like to go visit that person to say my last words my piece of mind, would that make my restraining order get dropped in court?
Posted by: janaah
TROs are different in various states. I would like to know what the requirements are for the state of Maryland.